I always believed Mormons were the sweetest, nicest bunch on the block. I still believe they're pretty dang good at being nice, even when they don't want to be.
But I've found a loophole in the niceness rule. In regards to apostates - those who once believed, and now do not - Mormons are allowed to be anything BUT nice. Be evasive. Be cold. Be blunt. In fact, be downright bitchy!
Of course. Because being bitchy to dissenters is clearly the only way to warm their stone-cold hearts and rekindle their desire for the love of God and fellowship among the saints.